tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post123221559527132257..comments2023-05-27T07:05:23.948-06:00Comments on My Montana Blu: Dreadful DayUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-49402713652575575952009-07-31T11:38:03.843-06:002009-07-31T11:38:03.843-06:00That really sucks about your day but it does seem ...That really sucks about your day but it does seem employers are being harder then usual on employees. Keep going and keep your head up. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-6757789058279582242009-07-31T03:58:08.002-06:002009-07-31T03:58:08.002-06:00I'm sorry you had such a crappy day. I'm ...I'm sorry you had such a crappy day. I'm sending good day vibes to you from Canada for today and for the weekend! One thing at a time my friend, one thing at a time. After all you've gone through in the last couple of months, with all the changes happening at warp speed with the separation and the move, the last thing you need to worry about is your job. When I was stuck in my crappy job I used to say a little mantra on my way to work each day, which really helped me. I used to say, "Thank you God for protecting me from all negativiy this day and allowing only positivity, love and light into my awareness." I did this while envisioning myself wrapped in a protective bubble, which would repel and shield me from any negativity throughout the day. Believe it or not, it actually worked and people who had previously been a thorn in my side just sort of "went away" or stopped being annoying. I also like to repeat the mantra "I live a charmed life, in a friendly universe." And more often than not now a days, things do seem to go more my way, just by believing they will. I'm not saying it's the cure-all for all of life's ills, but if there are ways we can make it from moment to moment without letting life get us down, hey, I'm all for that! Anyway, sending good "work vibes" to you for today!!Avril Fleurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13139777746148763206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-69386380804880308862009-07-31T01:02:50.067-06:002009-07-31T01:02:50.067-06:00it does sound like you had a really shitty day. i ...it does sound like you had a really shitty day. i am sorry, M. i remember when i was first on my own with the 4 kidlets, i didnt realise how much responsibility i would feel and have on my shoulders alone. try to remind yourself every single day, perhaps several times a day when needed, that you ARE enough, that GOOD things will come your way, that you and the kiddies are SAFE... and remember that you are very capable of handling anything that comes your way. look at what you have been through already. you ARE strong enough to face ANYTHING. it does feel scary, but as time goes on, you will feel stronger and more confident... if you need to cling to hubcap temporarily and you are comfortable doing so, then by all means, do. nothing is black or white right or wrong. as women making changes we go through each day the best we can... a tender moment with a friend/ex DOES NOT mean you have failed or slipped or anything bad. it just means for that moment you had your need met. it will not take away from all of your hard work to be free. 2 steps forward, one step back. <br />as for your asshole boss, he is really being very judgemental and not having any compassion or empathy for what you have been going through. geeeeez everyone makes a mistake here and there. could it be a sign for you to start looking elsewhere for work? and dont worry about being written up, it will get pulled from your file and fuck them all, you are doing the best you can. right now your kids and your life comes first. <br /><br />i used to put affirmations up all over the house to remind me i would be alright and that for today, i am exactly where i am supposed to be. so i pass that onto you, friend. everything is as it should be. its how you react to it that will make the difference. BE STRONG. BE OF GOOD COURAGE. YOU HAVE THE POWER. YOU ARE GOING TO BE OK. do what you need to do and dont let yourself have any ill feelings. remember, you and hubcap will always love eachother, as friends now. i will keep you in my prayers and if you need to talk more you have my email.<br /><br />hugs,<br /><br />chrisChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910078888984045131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-90100407437037703882009-07-30T18:29:35.312-06:002009-07-30T18:29:35.312-06:00there's a reason this is happening. you've...there's a reason this is happening. you've been remarkably strong. i'd say take it as a sign and make it work for you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com