tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post1658578110285046293..comments2023-05-27T07:05:23.948-06:00Comments on My Montana Blu: Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-49219575867961282692010-02-05T07:25:42.163-07:002010-02-05T07:25:42.163-07:00I do agree with your therapist, much of this will ...I do agree with your therapist, much of this will pass. Your kids will watch it all and they will "get" whatever needs to be got as they grow up. Steady message is YOU are always there for them.<br /><br />Good luck meeting halfway!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-81543309481880344822010-02-04T17:52:19.173-07:002010-02-04T17:52:19.173-07:00I'm so sorry...I have no real words of wisdom ...I'm so sorry...I have no real words of wisdom here, but C and Kimber have some really good thoughts.<br /><br />And have fun. You deserve it!Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07874329165667110488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-39626328525420612222010-02-03T18:07:51.771-07:002010-02-03T18:07:51.771-07:00amen sistah. if you read my earliest entries on my...amen sistah. if you read my earliest entries on my blog, you will find the exact same words about my kids dad.<br />DEADBEAT.<br />its fucking unbelievable he can just walk away from the kids he used to live for, isnt it...?<br />i'll never understand and today, the kids see him for what he is.<br /><br />just be there for them, as you are. you cannot be both parents to them but your consistancy will make such a difference and give them security they cant get from him.<br /><br />somehow, your love and tenderness will be enough. <br /><br />its heartwrenching to see them cry for their dad. i lived through that, too. hopefully one day he will realize what he is missing, in them, mine never did but ya never know.<br /><br />have fun this weekend.<br /><br />cChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09910078888984045131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6131696882306768787.post-66464599815131141872010-02-03T07:13:46.981-07:002010-02-03T07:13:46.981-07:00Mon, I went thru something so similar when my kids...Mon, I went thru something so similar when my kids' father and I split up, what you need to do to protect the interest of yourself and your children is keep a log of every single time he refuses the offer of keeping his kids for a visit, or every time he uses the kids to get back at you for his own anger and keep it faithfully. <br /><br />I know that he's going to do whatever he can as the divorce gets closer to slice your heart open, and you'll want all the evidence you can get to prove to a court that he's been a very absent, very non-committal type father. Custody cases can be very scary things if not handled right and a person that you think you know so well can turn into something extremely ugly and unpredictable at a moment's notice. <br /><br />I wish you only the best and that this all works out with the house and that you'll be free of this manipulation very soon...kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06735828474014945446noreply@blogger.com