Monday, March 15, 2010

It's Official...I'm "OUT"!

Well folks, it's official. I told my mom today!

I told her I was seeing someone, and it wasn't a "man" and that she was wonderful.

You know what my mom said? "Honey, that's WONDERFUL"

....seriously, that's what she said to me. "Wonderful".

God...so this means I'm officially "out" to anyone in my life who matters....so I think that means I'm "out"...or does it???

Who the fuck cares..what a fucking relief!!

Now I can call my mom more often because I won't feel like I'm hiding this huge thing from her. Now I can include my GF in conversations about my life....

I'm so happy, and of course the very first thing I did was call my GF to tell her.

I had such an amazing weekend with her this weekend, it takes my breath away.

It's all good...

Mon

13 comments:

Camlin said...

Hooray for you! You betcha! You're out now!

Our moms continually surprise us, don't they? My mom is awesome.

the only daughter said...

I'm smiling from ear to ear. I am sooooo Happy for you!!!

Mon said...

Thanks Cam...Thanks D...I'm happy too..what a relief, it's been a long time coming for sure...and thank you both for being a continuing source of support for me the last few years!

notjustafemme said...

yay!

i felt the same way - once i told my parents, it all seemed downhill from there.

so glad things are well :)

Haizey said...

BRILLIANT NEWS :)

Zenobia46 said...

Wow! That is just "AMAZING!!" I too am VERY happy for you. I can only imagine how light, and freeing, and liberating it must feel to finally be able to add another step to living the beautiful, exciting,authentic life in front of you.

Jude said...

Don't you feel lighter?

If I had known how good the "out" feeling felt, I would have done it sooner rather than later.

Congrats!

joye said...

YAY!!!! I remember telling my parents, after worrying how they'd take it, and they said essentially the same thing. And I wondered then why I'd spent so much energy NOT telling them.

Congratulations!!

Earth Muffin said...

That's great, Mon! Hooray for cool moms!

Mel's Way or No Way said...

A big CONGRATS to you!!

Now, go out there and enjoy your life and be happy being yourself. :)

makingspacethejourneyout said...

Congrats to you!!! So happy to hear how your mom was - EXACTLY the right response - it IS wonderful. Hooray!

Cynthia said...

Hooooooorrrrrayyyyyyy!!!!!!

Love and a hug - Sta

Grumpy Granny said...

Just now reading this--do your posts have actual dates on them? But that is so great to hear! I'm thrilled for you!! Just want to reach out and give you a big ol' hug!

Congratulations and good for your mom, too!

GG